Holiday Parties At Home

33. Holiday Parties at Home

It can be very satisfying to cater to friends, families and loved ones

during the Christmas holidays. Taking the time to share food, fun and laughter

in a happy, jovial manner truly embraces the spirit of Christmas.

In deciding to have a party at home, one of the first things to consider

is whether it will be formal or informal. Among the key things that need to be

considered are the number of people to attend, the menu, the preparation of food

and arrangement of decoration that is attractive and has themes for the

holidays. It's also important to make a note of how much, if any, help will be

available from friends or family members.

A formal Christmas party likely would include a small number of people -

not more than 12 and likely fewer - who would be seated at a table for the

duration of the meal. It means that place settings and seating have to be done

and a decision made on whether the meal will be a three- or four-course dinner.

The advantage of a formal dinner is that it is very organized, it has a

known content and everyone around the table usually engages in pleasant

conversation. It also usually provides a good opportunity to get to know and

hear from everyone present without having to initiate any small talk, which some

people are not comfortable doing.

As the host of a formal dinner, you will also have the responsibility of

keeping the meal flowing smoothly by having each course brought out at the

perfect timing and to also be aware of any special needs that a guest may have.

In contrast, an informal Christmas party at home is organized in a

different manner and does not have the predictability of a formal one. The fun

and festive spirit of an informal holiday party comes from groups of people who

mill around, move about freely to have conversations, laugh and enjoy munching

on Christmas treats, goodies and other foods.

Despite the easy, fun-filled atmosphere, it is necessary to plan the use of

space and to think about the area that people will use or wander around. Making

such a plan will facilitate contact between partygoers so that the party spirit

will pervade everywhere and put participants in a livelier mood.

Another consideration to make for an informal Christmas party among friends and

family is if children will be present and about their ages, if they are allowed

to attend. Children, even older ones, always need careful supervision. If

children are going to attend a holiday party at home, arrangements should be

made for adequate supervision of them and special activities should also be

provided that can occupy their attention.

An important feature that must be a part of a festive Christmas party at home is

the right mix of music. In selecting Christmas music, consideration should be

given to what will be played at the start of the party as guests are welcomed

and introduced to each other, the songs that can be played later to inject or

enhance liveliness and later to create the right mood as the partygoers bid

farewell with 'Merry Christmas' or 'Happy Holidays.'

Along with the music, Christmas decorations and even the food can also help to

enliven a Christmas party at home. Food that is interesting because it looks

'pretty' due to the color palette of items, infuses a mellow feeling among

guests and adds an intangible element to the level of enjoyment and excitement

of the partygoers.

Christmas parties at home can also be personalized with special cookies, treats

and dishes that are ethnic. The presence of some ethnic food, but not an

overwhelming quantity, which isn't frequently enjoyed by guests will be

different and will add something that is unique to the host. And that is a part

of what a Christmas or holiday party at home is about. It's to entertain family,

friends and acquaintances with a personal style while all enjoy some merriment

in the season of goodwill and good cheer.